complaining

i can't stand to hear people complain about their own problems.  i'm sorry if you are hurting, but hell, you need to man up and just deal with it.  you like to keep using your pains as an issue of not working, well, guess what?!  then i guess you just gonna have deal with being broke.  i'm sorry if you have family memebers that are ill, they don't seem to want to get well at all.  what do you want me to do?  you is a grown person.  depending on something that will make in turn give you some money isn't something that should depend on.  seriously.  if that's the case, why don't you just go right on ahead and get disability so that you can get a monthly check so you don't ever have to work.  it's so irritating hearing all these complaints.  oh and by the way, your lifestyle isn't the best to be living as well.  especially if you don't have the funds to live it.  you hate asking money well fine, but you do anyways.  shame on you.  grown as hell and you a begger.  you say you live the lifestyle you do because of the illness in your home.  you can't win can you?  no, you can't because you refuse to take the nessaccery steps to get on top.  instead you look for an easier way to get out.  i'm sorry, shit just don't work like that.  i work hard to get where i am at.  my story is different, i might not live with the pain that you bear or the illness that consumes your home and your family but trust me when i say, i know how it feels hurt, to be around illness, and to be broke.  don't for once doubt where i have been, where i'm at and where i will be.